Thanksgiving and Abundance

Although it always feels good to have gratitude in our daily lives, Thanksgiving is meant to be a time for expressing feelings of gratitude, sharing, for being thankful for what we have, being at service to others, and for spending time with friends and family. Being thankful and expressing gratitude for what we have also has the bonus of attracting abundance to our lives. All of those positive vibes get sent out to the Universe and spread out like threads, and connect to others, and thus attract new opportunities and material and non-material abundance as the Universe and other people intuitively pick up on the fact that you appreciate what has been given you thus far, and therefore energetically balance that positive energy you send out, back to you with more. If a person constantly focuses on what little they have, and puts that negative energy out to the Universe and other people (other people who have intuition themselves, even if they don’t believe that they do), then the Universe and other people, consciously or subconsciously, will react by hindering opportunities and abundance, as the person is not being receptive, and receptivity to abundance is blocked.

Abundance from the Universe doesn’t always come in the form of material goods and money. Sometimes it comes in the form of opportunities and help from other people. I notice that when I put a conscious effort on being thankful for every little thing that the Universe and other people provide me and help me with, that I will suddenly have unexpected help from friends, family, and even strangers, little unexpected gifts, surpises, new ideas, and new business opportunities and clients. Sometimes being grateful for the abundance that you have already received can indeed attract money and material things, but it doesn’t always have to be so. In terms of manifestation of abundance, it is important and just plain feels good to be grateful for what you have in all forms.

When I use my clairvoyance and focus on the connections of the Universe, I can see energy spreading out from people and connecting to each other and everything like strings. I can see the connected strings pulling back and forth and being interconnected like a complicated woven pattern, tensing and easing up here and there. Your thoughts create an energy that forms a string or connection, and through it sends the energy of your thoughts out, and energy also gets sent back to you. That is why positive thoughts and affirmations are so powerful, and also why negative thoughts can be powerful as well. If you think of the Universe as a computer program (not a perfect analogy, I know), your thoughts and focused energy are you basically inputting data into the program, changing and designing its direction. So if you focus on positive thoughts, and also give whatever and as much as you can, you are designing a ‘program’ to receive abundance from the Universe and others, which manifests positive energy and more opportunities into your life. When I ask for help from Spirit in times when I feel negative thoughts are taking over, they always remind me to start concentrating on positive affirmations, and even saying them aloud, and also to do some energy cleansing, grounding, and chakra balancing, and when I actually do these things, I suddenly notice a shift in energy, I feel much better and happy again, and abundance in all forms starts flowing to me once again. It sounds so simple, but positive affirmations, positive visualization, and energy work really are very powerful.

What are some of the things you are thankful for?

I hope everyone has a great day and Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!!!


You may also like to read Signs From the Spirit WorldSigns That You Have Already Known Someone in a Past Life, Five Signs You Are An EmpathMessages That Come Through During Readings, What Does the Colour of Your Aura Say About You?Things You Can Do To Develop Your Own Psychic Ability, Is There a Difference Between a Medium and a Psychic?, and to see examples of real Past Life, Tarot, and psychic readings by Patricia, here.

My name is Patricia and I am a clairvoyant psychic medium with over 20 years of reading experience. For more information about me and my history as a psychic medium, please visit the About page. To book a Past life or Psychic Medium reading with me, read testimonials, and see real examples of real readings, please visit the Booking a Reading page.


© 2017.



Regret and Apologies from the Other Side

During readings spirits will sometimes come through and express regret or sorrow about some of their actions while they were here. Spirits tell me that when we die and go to the Other Side, after we are welcomed by loved ones, guides, and spiritual deities, we are shown the events in our life and how our actions affected others. We gain a new perspective, as we are shown situations from all angles and others’ perspectives. We go through a healing process as well on the Other Side, and come to terms with our life and decisions, and make peace with them, seeing all of the contributing reasons why we acted the way that we did at the time. Spirits have gone through the process of seeing their life and how their actions have affected others, and now see a different perspective. Here are some of the more commonly mentioned regrets that spirits talk about in readings:

1. Spirits often express regret about not living the life that they truly wanted! This has to be one of the most common messages I get from Spirit in readings. They felt trapped by circumstance and societal expectations while they were here and didn’t do what they truly wanted. They set aside their passions and dreams to do things that society and family expected of them, rather than following their dreams. It is a common message from Spirit to tell their loved ones who are still here that by just doing what you really want to do in life, you will be helping the Universe, as everything else around you will fall into place. You will be helping others and the world by being happy within your own path. They also have a great sense of humour, and will joke around with me and clients during readings and say “YOLO” anytime someone is doubting making a leap in their own life or not going after something they truly want, haha.

2. Spirits that were abusive or hurt others while they were here commonly come through in readings and express deep regret about their actions and the effect it has had on their victims. They will also express regret about the snowball effect their actions had on subsequent generations, showing me the threads of negative energy that have come from them and spread to others. They see the results of their abuse and how it has affected the lives of not only their children, but their grandchildren and great-grand children, and so on, as well. It is very common for spirits to come through with apologetic messages to those they have hurt while they were here. They also commonly do things from the Other Side to help the people they have hurt while they were here, as a way to make up for their actions. It is very important for them to apologize in order to help the person heal from their abuse.

3. Spirits often express regret that they didn’t travel enough! Or go to school! Or start their own business, etc. Spirits often encourage their loved ones to travel and explore, and go to school, especially if they didn’t get the chance to do that while they were here themselves. They are very big on their loved ones taking advantage of opportunities that they didn’t have themselves while they were here.

4. Spirits also express regret that they didn’t show enough love in their relationships, didn’t appreciate their loved ones enough, or didn’t get to pursue certain relationships because of societal and familial expectations, class, etc.. Some spirits come through and admit that they didn’t love themselves or others while they were here – that they didn’t allow themselves to open up enough to experience love, and didn’t treat loved ones well or show them the amount of love that they felt or deserved. They regret that they didn’t pursue the love that they truly wanted, or got stuck in relationships that they were not happy in, or were unhealthy. In our society, we honour and celebrate couples who have been together for a long time, but don’t always realize that not all of them were happy. Because of the time that they lived in, it was frowned upon to leave a marriage, and thus some spirits express regret about staying in marriages that didn’t fulfill them, or were damaging, and always say that we should embrace the fact that we have more options today. They also express regret about not pursuing relationships that they desperately desired and encourage their loved ones to always tell people how they truly feel and be authentic in their relationships.

5. That they didn’t spend enough time with their family and true friends. Many spirits come through and express regret about spending all of their energy on work and money, things that they can’t take to the Other Side with them anyway, rather than on their relationships, which is one of the greatest experiences and purposes of life. They regret that they cared about a big house and money but didn’t spend time with their loved ones inside them.

6. They express regret that they cared too much about what other people thought about them while they were here! They wish they didn’t waste time caring about social pressure and what other people thought about them. They wish they would have lived the life they truly wanted without being influenced by social pressure. They want their loved ones to stop caring what other people think as well, and to just be themselves.

7. They sometimes express regret that they didn’t just enjoy the moments of their lives and instead got caught up in what they now consider to be unimportant details of the material world. They regret the times that they allowed stress and worry and fear to govern their daily lives. They want their loved ones who are still here to try to conquer these things and seek peace and harmony in their lives.

8. Sometimes spirits express regret about not trying to reconcile with a loved one they were in a conflict with before they passed away. If they didn’t have the greatest relationship with someone while they were here, many times they will apologize and express regret for their actions that contributed to the conflict or bad energy between them and the other person or people. It is common for them to come through and encourage their loved ones who are still here to mend broken fences with people who matter, because as they always say, time is precious and your life could end at any time, and then it will be too late.

9. Spirits who passed away from something self-inflicted or recklessness will often come through with regret about the pain that their premature passing has caused their loved ones. They want their loved ones to seek peace and to know that they are now in a good place watching over them. They do not want their loved ones to feel guilty or bad for not being there or thinking that they should have prevented it. They usually apologize to their loved ones for making them feel like they did something wrong. They want us to be at peace and to know that they are no longer in pain.

My name is Patricia and I am a clairvoyant psychic medium, based in Canmore, AB., with over 20 years of reading experience. To book a Psychic Medium reading or Energy Cleansing with me, to read testimonials, and to see links to examples of real readings done for real clients in the past, please visit the Booking a Reading page. To learn more about my history as a psychic medium, please visit the About page.  

© 2017

Signs of Psychic Attack and Ways to Protect Yourself


Psychic attack happens when someone (a person or a Spirit) is so negatively focused on and obsessed with causing hurt and damage to you that they purposely or subconsciously send you strong negative energy that profoundly affects your quality of life, psychological and emotional state, relationships, mood, and even physical health in an extremely negative way.

While we ultimately have the power over our own minds, emotions and bodies, sometimes people or Spirits can still break through the barrier and influence us in a negative way. This happens in the physical world all the time, without any supernatural influence, in the form of brainwashing in cults, for example, or in domestic violence situations, where victims may not even be consciously aware of how much negative control others have gained over their own perceptions, thoughts, decisions, and state of mind. When it happens on a psychic level, when a person or Spirit negatively controls someone’s state of mind, emotions, and physical health, the psychic attacker is telepathically manipulating that person’s energy by sending them negative energy through negative thought transfer, and sometimes even with a spell, rather than through direct physical communication.

Here are some of the signs that you are being psychically attacked:

1. The very first sign of psychic attack is that you intuitively sense or just know that something is not right and that there is negative energy being sent to you. In my experience, most people are not in tune or confident enough in their psychic ability to trust their own intuition when it tells them something is not right, so they can be psychically attacked for a long time without really addressing it. Many times you will know or have an idea of who is psychically attacking you, because your intuition will be picking up on it.

2. You notice a definite increase in intrusive thoughts and emotions, especially if you don’t usually experience this. The intrusive thoughts and emotions are very negative, and are not based on any recent or current circumstances in your life. You have a hard time functioning in your daily life as a result of the intrusive thoughts. Your self-esteem and self-worth will be very low, as the intrusive thoughts directly attack your self-acceptance and self-love.

3. You just don’t feel like yourself. You are more down on yourself than normal and seemingly cant get out of a rut no matter how hard you try. You lack the motivation that you normally have, and have lost faith in your abilities. You may be more anxious, depressed, angry, and irritable than normal, as you are absorbing the negative energy of the thoughts and emotions of the psychic attacker(s).

4. You have repetitive nightmares where you are being attacked. Most of the time this type of dream is just symbolic of running away from fear and facing your fears, but if they are repetitive and vivid, have a recurring character, and often result in the Old Hag Syndrome or sleep paralysis, suspect psychic attack, either from a person, people, or a Spirit. If it is just a person, you most likely wont experience sleep paralysis or the Old Hag syndrome, the person or monster chasing you in your dream is just a representation that your Higher Self made of the person psychically attacking you.

5. You just can’t seem to get someone’s energy off of you, even if you have deleted them from your life, or they live far away and you have no contact. They pop into your head intrusively, and the negative things they’ve done and said to you keep repeating over and over in your mind, even when you put effort into trying to focus on other things. You know you really don’t care or never did care about them or what they did to you, but they still intrusively keep popping up in your mind. You still feel attacked by them even though the situation has passed. This can be a sign of someone being negatively obsessed with you. Sometimes it can just be in your head, but if your intuition is strong, you will usually be able to tell the difference. Once again, a big clue that it is a true psychic attack is if you know that this person doesn’t or didn’t really mean anything to you and you have moved on, but they all of a sudden or keep coming to mind anyway.

6. You have physical symptoms that you don’t normally have, such as sleep interruption, change in eating habits, change in sex drive, cravings, etc. If a Spirit has a strong enough connection with you to psychically attack you, they can influence your physical body as well (in extreme cases this would be considered a Spirit possession). The negative energy of a human psychic attacker can also be strong enough to bring about physical symptoms, the same way that your own negative energy of negative thoughts and feelings can make you physically ill.

7. You keep getting signs from Spirit warning you about something. Animal messengers like bees, hornets, foxes, snakes, wasps, spiders, etc. can be a strong warning sign from Spirit that something negative is around you or that someone is after you and causing you problems. These animal messengers also represent many other things, including many positive things, depending on the context, but often times they are bringing a warning.

While this isn’t a complete list of all the signs of psychic attack, I think it is a really good starting point. Keep in mind that just because you experience some of the things listed above, it doesn’t automatically mean that you are being psychically attacked. They can be signs of depression or other mental health issues.

I am currently working on a more thorough article about protection from psychic attack, but in the meantime, here are some brief suggestions:

Cutting energy cords, which you can find instructions for online (I will be adding this to my article on psychic protection), and grounding, instructions here. I see energy cords with everyone, it is a good idea to learn how to cut them (which I can do in a reading with an energy cleansing and balancing, but you can also search for instructions online).

Protection with Crystals. Black obsidian and black onyx are great for this, as well as amethyst, but make sure to keep your crystals energetically clean, which you can find more information on online.

Protection with spiritual artifacts, symbols, dreamcatchers, or Amulets, etc. Masks, crosses, pentagrams, etc. are all very powerful for protection. Keep them over entranceways and by the bedside, or over your bed with a dreamcatcher for protection in sleep.

Working on mindfulness. Work on erasing negative thinking patterns and feelings, and replacing them with positive affirmations. The person or spirit psychically attacking you wants you to think and feel bad on yourself. They basically want to destroy you, so you have to counter-balance that with healthy, happy thoughts. If you have a history of allowing negative thought to take over on a regular basis anyway, your psychic attackers will already have one up on you and will be able to take over your state of mind and emotions very easily, the same way that an abuser can sometimes more easily take over the mind of someone who has been abused before.


_igp4956-1You may also like to read Signs From the Spirit World, Spring Cleaning for Your SpiritSigns That You Have Already Known Someone in a Past Life, Things You Can Do To Develop Your Own Psychic AbilityWhat Does the Colour of Your Aura Say About You?What is Grounding and Why it is ImportantFive Signs You Are An EmpathMessages That Come Through During Readings, and A Spirit Animal Reading, also by Patricia.

Patricia is a clairvoyant psychic medium with over 20 years of reading experience. For more information about Patricia and her history as a psychic medium, please visit the About page. To book a Psychic Medium reading with Patricia, read testimonials, and see real examples of real readings, please visit the Booking a Reading page.


* for entertainment purposes only. Not to be substituted for professional medical, legal, health, psychological or other professional advice.



©, 2016.

A Cheeky Family Spirit Who Still Teases Us from The Other Side

Spirits who liked to laugh and tease and joke around a lot while they were alive, still like to joke around and tease us from the Other Side.

The other day while I was browsing online, one of my more distant cousins on my father’s side of the family (who I never knew very well because he is around my parent’s age) popped up on chat to say hello, and to say hi to my parents for him (let’s call him Roy).

As we were making online small talk, he told me that he wanted a reading from me, and I said sure. And then all of a sudden my Great Uncle Clifford on my mother’s side (who recently passed away this summer) came to me in Spirit and told me to say hi to Roy for him. I was scared and hesitant, because I wasn’t even sure if Roy knew who my Great Uncle was (they are from different sides of the family), but Clifford was insistent. It sounds funny, but even though I have had this ability my whole life and it has been tested and proven to me over and over again, I still struggle with confidence sometimes in it.

He kept saying, “Just say it! Trust me, just say it! He knows me!” And I could hear him laughing, my Uncle Clifford laughed and joked all the time, and he had a great laugh (has, had? lol).

So I asked Roy if he knew my Uncle Clifford, and he wrote “Yes, I miss that guy. Little Big Man. Me and George were just talking about him the other day.”.

Clifford then showed me a vision of himself taking his cowboy hat off and bowing his hat to Roy’s cowboy hat. I described this vision to Roy and he wrote “He always bowed his hat to mine, as I did to his.”

I wrote that I couldn’t have known that, I didn’t even know they knew each other, and Roy agreed.

Clifford started laughing then, and showed a vision of himself pushing his thumb against Roy’s nose. I asked Roy what that meant and he said it was a sign of respect, and my Uncle Clifford just started laughing even more and said “Ask him what it really means.”

So I did, and Roy wrote, “No, he’s just being funny, he’s saying I’m a brown-noser and giving his giggles.”, which I could hear from the Other Side. “He always used to say I was a brown-noser when I tried to impress a pretty lady, lol.”. I was laughing, it was the first time a Spirit called someone a brown-noser while I was channeling them, haha!

My Uncle Clifford just laughed and said “Tell everyone I am doing good, they got some good music up here!” And then he said “It’s time for me to go now. Tell Roy he owes you money just for this,” and he laughed and slapped his leg. Then he started jigging away.

Roy answered, “That’s Clifford. I could just see him saying and doing that. . . ”

My Uncle Clifford loved to tease people and joke around, and he loved music, fiddle, and jigging. I guess he’s still doing all that on the Other Side. . .

You may also like to read Signs From the Spirit World, Messages That Come Through During Readings, or to see examples of real readings by Patricia, here

Patricia is a clairvoyant psychic medium with over 20 years of reading experience. For more information about Patricia and her history as a psychic medium, please visit the About page. To book a Past life or Psychic Medium reading with Patricia, read testimonials, and see real examples of real readings, please visit the Booking a Reading page.

©, 2016.

Messages From Spirit About the U.S. 2016 Election and Results


November 9th, 2016 – So I did end up watching the U.S. election results last night, but mostly because I wanted to see how the messages I got from Spirit, mostly by accident, ended up playing out. The past year or so I have gotten many spontaneous visions and messages about the election, still not knowing how to REALLY interpret them until now, and I did change my own mind closer to the end. In my readings, I always tell people that I always trust the messages I get from Spirit, but not always my or any person’s interpretation of those messages. Any time that I have thought Spirit was wrong about something after an event, they tell me to slow down and look back at the message again, look at what I actually asked, and what they LITERALLY said (they are very literal), and I then realize that they were actually RIGHT. Sometimes they will say that the messages they brought forward have not happened yet, to be patient, and this is their message in the case of the 2016 American election.

Since the Canadian election when Prime Minister Trudeau was elected, Spirit jokingly said that there would be two hairdos in power for the United States and Canada, haha. Yes, they can be hilarious, and me too ;-). I even wrote it on my personal FB page the few times it came through since then (see the photo below, lol, just one example) . I definitely associate the idea of the hairdo thing with Trump, and Spirit will use my own experiences and symbols to get me to get what they mean. But closer to the election I have been getting visions of Hillary with her arms up in the air, holding the hands of her team, and her being in the White House and appearing at news conferences, and shaking the hands of world leaders. They also said that he would “screw it up”. They also clairaudiently said something about him being a sore loser. I associate all those messages, besides the hairdo thing, with Clinton remaining victorious. I also realize I was picking up on the energy surrounding the election, most people predicted she would ‘win’ (although now Spirit is reminding me that she did indeed ‘win’, they are persistent, haha). I will say that I did have a deep deep fear about the election the whole year, so I should have taken that into account, it is clairsentient information, after all, haha (no, seriously, it is! And as you can tell, no I personally did not want him to win. But I will add that the Spirits do say it is not the best outcome for many besides him and his circle, hmmm).


This is PROOF!! haha

But Spirit also showed Clinton and Trump with their arms up together (symbolizing, to me, sharing a win). And you could say that Hillary does have a hairdo, as well. They also said that there would be a controversy about voting fraud and rigging, and that if Trump wins, there will be questions of fraud. These parts of the messages confused me.

Now that the election day is over, and Clinton has conceded, I can see what all those messages mean. The hairdo thing, that I first started mentioning around a year ago, definitely pointed to Trump. So far Clinton is winning the popular vote, and in the end she probably will, so the messages about them sharing a win makes sense. He wins the seats, she wins the popular vote. You have to realize that Spirit is very literal. The U.S. political system is not their design, so a win to them very much can mean a popular vote. In another society, or time, she is considered the “winner”. The voter fraud thing obviously addresses Trumps accusations of it, which has already come to pass. But Spirit tells me it will still be a controversy. Some of the electorates and people will raise suspicion of fraud once the results are all in. And the sore loser thing refers to him saying that he would not accept it if he lost.

For future from now, what I got “accidentally” so far, haha (I did not actually seek answers, they just came to me) Spirit says it is not over yet (interesting. . .). They are still showing me Clinton involved in American politics in the future. They are showing her in the White House, I do not think this is the last we will hear from her at all. The Spirits are saying that she will have a role in the electorate system reform they say is coming in the next decade to the U.S. This case will be used as a example for political system reform in the U.S. It will be only one of a handful of times where the president did not win by popular vote. Although Spirit just piped in again while I am typing this, and keeps saying that she did actually win, hmmmmmm. . . They did also start telling me earlier this year about an assassination or assassination attempt. Hopefully that is a misinterpretation on my part. . .

And they are saying the message about him “screwing it up” is still going to happen, too (it already started, they just piped in, haha). As a sidetone, for the Spirits to use the phrasing of “screwing it up”, that tells me that it is a snippet of real conversation or a news story to happen in the future, maybe something that someone famous will say in a public forum. Nevertheless, I get the feeling he will not last.

But anyway, that is my little reflection on the recent events of the U.S. election messages I have been getting for the past year or more. I am getting a lot more, but my brain hurts, haha. I am still remembering it and writing it down at home though!

And just so everyone knows, once again I am not responsible for what Spirits want to tell me or talk about, so keep that in mind as well. I’m just telling you what I heard! 😉 haha



UPDATE November 14th, 2016: after writing and publishing this, I see that Clinton is still winning the popular vote.

UPDATE November 26th, 2016: Clinton is winning the popular vote by over 2 million votes. A recount is being called, which explains more what the message about election rigging meant.



Patricia is a clairvoyant psychic medium with over 20 years of reading experience. For more information about Patricia and her history as a psychic medium, please visit the About page. To book a Past life or Psychic Medium reading with Patricia, read testimonials, and see real examples of real readings, please visit the Booking a Reading page.





*for entertainment purposes only.



©, 2016.





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A Message From the Other Side – November 22, 2015

I thought it would be nice to start posting some of the amazing messages that come through during my readings on here, just to give a sense of how a reading works and the kinds of messages that come through.

During a phone reading last week for a first-time client, the client’s brother came through from the Other Side and right away I could smell motor oil and hear an engine, and she confirmed that yes, he was very mechanical and loved fixing things. During the reading he told her to go get her car checked out, he showed me the tires. She said it was probably a different issue, a recall for another part, because she just got the tires changed, but her brother was still insistent. She just messaged me to let me know that she took it in, thinking it was the recall, but her tires were going to fall off if she hadn’t gone in because someone inexperienced had changed them. Wow!! I am still always so amazed by this stuff and feel so blessed to be able to connect loved ones and share these moments with people, even though I get to do it all the time! It’s nice to know that our loved ones are still watching over us from the Other Side.  Hope everyone’s having a great day!!